I was stuck in the little to no contact situation for a month and then seemingly out of no where she wanted to start talking to me and seeing me again. Then she wanted to start talking about her feelings and stuff and that really threw me for a loop. I think that it was my consistency and not pursuing that let her feel comfortable enough to get to that point. How long it will take to get to that point is different for every person, so be prepared for it to take a while.
Thanks for thinking that I did well. I felt like I did good. It feels good to know that I'm not being a doormat but that I can still be loving to her. What a way to start a day! Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
