One of the things I noticed with my H is that his mood would get bad after we danced together. It was like doing something fun and having a good time with me put him off. Needless to say we don't dance anymore. Sometimes it makes me wonder if having a "nice" time with us stirs stuff up.
Sorry you're not feeling well physically, but otherwise you sound good. Keep it up.
Like you I've been shopping for H from D's and I plan on getting him something...probably a sweater.
I had to laugh at your humble remark. Ever heard the humble song by Mac Davis? If you haven't you should look it up.