ditto what Jen-Jam said, if he's just begining to be comfortable with how things are, dont' rush, sit still, whenhe is ready, then he'll plan it, don't try to "make"him do things.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.