Ah, you hit on a good point. No I have never not been the logcial one. Even when I totally freak out, I got him down the road I wanted by Logic.
I can try not being the logical one and totally arguing a point from a different view.
Not much communication with H right now. In 2 weeks he can file for D, I think he is purposly staying away so he can feel guilt free to file.
I guess the 180 for me is not pursuing not calling not even talking to him when I see him out. (Not not talking to him but not going out of my way either. )
