Thanks, folks. I'll send it tomorrow. Wii: I love the line: "Stop that because you know I like it"
God...I still rememeber the day I moved out. I can't think of a worse day in my life. I couldn't pack anything without getting completley choked up and overwhelmed. I have, however come to the decision that I do need to move on. I have decided it's over. I'll just let her do all of the leg work and formalization of it.
Yes. It does su*k. It doesn't get worse than this. I'm not sure how they can do this to their own kids, us aside.
What do you all feel about this part (below)of my last post? Not that I want to ever use my kids, but when do you get to the point if you do divorce, that you DON'T carve the pumkins or put up the tree at your old house. WE WON'T BE A FAMILY, why pretend "for the kids"?
I know it’s “for the kids” (carving pumpkins, putting up the tree at you old house), but if a couple gets divorced, when do you send the message to your former spouse: “ I’m not doing this. It’s over. We’re not a family. Don’t try to pretend we are. Don’t make me feel guilty because I won’t put up a tree in my old house. This is what YOU wanted. I’ll have my own holiday with the kids. If this is for the kids, why did you want a divorce?”
Here's another question: I don't ever want to agree to a dviorce. Period. Does it make any sense to try and keep someone married to you who is so adamant about getting out. Does it serve anybody any good?
I've really been struggling with this and need some advice from you kind and smart people!
