Superdad, I agree completely......couldnt of said it better..
Stuff happens and it is our responses that determines our happiness much more than the sepcific stich.
I find myself finding joy in my daughters and making sure they are happy which in return makes me happy.
I also have told H that if he would stop letting his emotions control him instead the other way around..maybe all of his R in life will turn for the better..he has a serious anger management promblem...I think this he actualy thought about what I said for once!?