What were the times like when he felt that "he won"? How did you get there? What was he like afterwards?
Have you ever done a 180, and maybe tried to argue a point from the total opposite stance of how you actually felt? Tried to argue a point from what might be his stance on it? If so, how did that go?
I used to think that was because I was just more logical and right more times than he was.
Have YOU ever NOT been the logical one? Ever come from an emotional stance? Maybe a place that really didn't make much sense? An "illogical" point of view?
Are there any "exceptions to the rules", times when he may have felt satisfied after the two of you had a conflict? Times when things went better?
JJ
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