WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

[mako]

Mako, even if I have plans, I would break them in a flash if my WAW would ask me to join her (even if for a visit to her mom's place). This is in sharp contrast to what I would have done before the bomb. Actually come to think of it that is another one of her complaints.

I don't know the answer, between doing a large 180 that your W would want changed for any reconciliation, and giving her space. I've struggled with that also, as sharing of emotions was our biggest R problem and now I'm prepared to try more of that but she doesn't really want it now...I have done better at my sharing since the bomb, but I think some of that pushed her away. Often at this point they see positive changes as "he's just trying to get me back, it won't last, too little too late." So, again, I just don't know...