The problem I have with detachment is that it works well during the week. On weekends since we live in the same house and we have children it becomes more difficult. Also, the slightest interest or positive move on her part and I backslide. I will need to work on this. I guess I will be on my way to detaching when WAW asks me to join her and I refuse. Although this is one of her complaints about our R...I let her do too many things alone. Go figure....now she needs space. I am thinking way more than I should.