These are the exact things my wife has been telling me. In fact just yesterday she told me that she hopes one day we can have the friendship we can't seem to have right now. She's happier this way, she has already moved on and we are already divorced in her mind.
This is what my W tells me. She has already moved and I think we are divorced in her mind also. She has someone and that she is happy. I hate the fact that she is happy with OM, it makes me sick to my stomach sometimes..
Originally Posted By: Michael Mc C
So I have come to the realization that I have entered the last phase of DB'ing, that at this point I have done all I can do to turn things around before she hit the point of no return. She hasn't filed, and who knows if she ever will, but she has done everything she can to make sure I have no doubts about this being over.
I don’t know if I have entered the last phase yet. I have not done or tried everything I can do. My W has not filed just (that I know of), I know she is getting a lawyer to help her file..well that is what she told me. She had made it clear that we are over and that she is not coming back…She has done this sort thing several times when we were dating and she came back….so I just keep thinking that she will come back again..
Originally Posted By: Michael Mc C
As long as I live my life for me, with integrity and with pride in knowing what I have done and what I have learned, my happiness will transcend to my children and to those I love and those that love me.
I really need to get to this point! I think once I get there then I will be okay with everything. Do you tell yourself things everyday? If so, what do you tell yourself?
