I might have some really good suggestions but I need to know your relative sizes and details of physical and sexual fitness/preferences. From what you've said, I would guess that your H is too sexually monkey for your taste. He's trying to move you from bunny to monkey by acting like a monkey himself. Works with some girls some times but not so good with you. How do you think that you would react if he did something like:

1) Stare at you steadily until you indicate that it is making you uncomfortable and then smile and say "Just admiring the view" and then walk away.

2) Place his hand on the small of your back as he opens the restaurant door for you and whispers in your ear "That young valet wanted to eat you from the legs up."

3) Cupped your breast in his hand and then applied firm steady outward pressure with thumb and forefinger so that your nipple popped out hard but then didn't touch it.

4) Brought you to orgasm through oral or manual stimulation and then after a bit of straight-up f*cking paused smiling above you and said "Give me a number between 1 and 20" and then f8cked you shallow for 12 and then deep on 13.

Of course, I'm not suggesting that you tell him to do these things if you like them because due to the laws of fusion it will backfire on you but if you do like these things you can do things yourself that might cause him to do what you would like or allow you both to get what you like.

For instance, let's say you hate it when he right away starts sticking his tongue in your mouth when you kiss. I say "Take charge, little bunny!" Cuddle up and give him all the romantic little bunny kisses you want and then when you are ready to move from bunny to monkey you can just "accidentally" suck/bite his lower lip a bit while still in bunny mode. Then you can be all like "I'm afraid there has been a mistake. I did not place an order for monkey meat. I am a gentle vegetarian." as you get up from the sofa and "accidentally" forget to pull your dress down like a lady.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver