These are the exact things my wife has been telling me. In fact just yesterday she told me that she hopes one day we can have the friendship we can't seem to have right now. She's happier this way, she has already moved on and we are already divorced in her mind.

So I have come to the realization that I have entered the last phase of DB'ing, that at this point I have done all I can do to turn things around before she hit the point of no return. She hasn't filed, and who knows if she ever will, but she has done everything she can to make sure I have no doubts about this being over.

As long as I live my life for me, with integrity and with pride in knowing what I have done and what I have learned, my happiness will transcend to my children and to those I love and those that love me.


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07