It just gets worse. I don't know what to do. I have spoken to a divorce busting coach which has helped. However my husband and I are now seeing solicitors re money and the house. I asked him if he was going to ask the solicitor about divorce, he said that he had never even thought about it. I said why not you say you are not coming back. May as well just get on with it. He has stopped paying me any money. I just don't know if to give up. I don't know what to say to him. We had a 25 minutes telephone conversation last night. The first time for a while. Afterwards I just cried my eyes out. I have looked at moving into a rented house to get out. But just don't know what to do for the best.