Ok, I have begun reading SSM. It is helping me focus on what is most important. I know I need to break out of my shell and my rut. I acknowledge that in the past I **HAVE** gone through the motions as he claims even though I did not feel that way in my head. SOOO... I did send him a topless pic on his phone. I also am still planning our sexy night out for his primary Christmas gift.
Here's the idea I'm working on right now. I would love your input. I am making him a coupon book ( I scrapbook and have tons of fun paper, etc. ). I would love to make it the perfect balance of sexy AND romantic. Please share your ideas!! I wanted to pop in here, but might give this its own thread since others may want to do the same this month.
Thanks so much for the input. This is the one place where I get "constructive criticism" on what I need to look at in my own behavior. It's not always easy to hear but I know that I have focused too long and hard on what he is doing wrong.
