Thanks for the compliment LWB, that was a much needed self esteem boost. Last time I called H with "crazy feelings" I told him that when I don't hear from him I imagine he is calling, texting or emailing her. H said that I don't have to worry about that because it was done before he and I talked about it. I believe him on this because the email I found seemed to be a follow up to an argument that ended the A a bit of time ago.
Our Hs are very similar in their thinking about the As. I am reading a very informative book titled "Not 'Just Friends'" The title in addition to the quote on the front from Michele convinced me to buy it. I read it when I can...or have the energy to confront the sitch. So far so good, I asked H 4 of the 10 questions recommended to start the healing process. H is out of town on business but has the questions with him to ponder in order to discuss them when he returns.
Thanks again for reading and commenting on my post
