One thing that I've observed over the years here is that people often give brilliant suggestions when posting to other people's threads, but often have a difficult time in THEIR situations!
If you were to look at your own situation like you look at other's, if you were to take a "third-party's" point of view on your situation, what would you post to yourself? What advice would you give to you?
JJ
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