Oh, I forgot to add. W and I discussed X-mas. Her family and mine both have our big parties on X-mas eve. She asked what to do, she brought it up. So I proposed that she take S to her party X-mas eve, I'll go to mine, then that night we meet at the house and I'll sleep on the couch. We have X-mas as a family and I'll make breakfast. Then I get S the rest of the day with my family. She agreed this was good and we are going to do it.
