If you can back out of the apartment, do so now. If she wants out, make her leave. This will not be easy, but I would hold my ground. Even if dates are picking her up at your house, don't leave. I got my house, she has an apartment. Stop chasing now, NOW! Do not give her the satisfaction of winning. She is upset right now, and she will hurt you. This isn't going to change over a week or so, she is going to have to go down this road by herself, while you cry at home alone. But whatever you do, don't text, call, write, make CD's, etc... Leave her be, let her explore the A and the world if it is happening. Don't snoop. It will only hurt you and not your M.
Also this is major, and is important you do this. Why? Because I can see a lot of you in me. Prior to making any decision and following through, give yourself 48 hours. Come here and post what your thinking of doing, and we will set you straight. Right now your not helping your sitch, sorry I'm not trying to be harsh, but I think you can do this and do it well.
