Taking it day by day...

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lwb... Colorado is a no fault state so adultery wont come into play. We were never legally separated. In fact, Im still paying ALL our bills from our marriage. WE owe thousands as W is bi-polar and went nuts with credit cards... almost lost our house because of it.

She actually hid not paying the mortgage for 3 months! I found out about it when I got a call from a bill collector saying I owed them 5,000 or they were going to start foreclosure...

Im so scared for my D being a witness to all this stuff with OM. She showed me her diary and in it said that she hated OM because her mom only pays attention to him.

Then D started getting physical symptoms...headaches and upset stomach everyday.

Now she cries everytime she has to go back to her mom's house and this all started when OM moved in.

W is too blind and selfish to see how this is affecting her D.