You don't have to answer my question. I just got caught up.
Your DUI issues are reminiscent of my marriage. My husband had 1 DUI before we met and two in the early years of our marriage. I can relate to your wife's feelings regarding that. It is juvenile and she was working her ass off to better herself. Here's the kicker, though. There may very well come a day that she realizes she should have been helping to alleviate the stresses that led you to drinking. I know that's what happened to me. But by that time, I had a MLC and wrecked my entire family structure. This is me 2 years post MLC and 2 years into rebuilding my relationship with my husband.
Leave your wife be. She is emotional, confused, scared, cocky, arrogant and self-important. Yep. It's possible to be all that and still loveable.
I'm gonna check back in on your sitch occasionally if you don't mind.
Hang in there and stay the course. It is not too late. But you'd better grab yourself a seat. This is one hell of a long haul.
