I have been following your sich with amazement. I can't believe that your H is so cruel that he carries on in your own home and doesn't even seem to try and hide it or doesn't even seem to care if you know or not. That is one sick puppy.
What are your options? Are you tied to him financially or otherwise? He is cake eating and doesn't show any signs of stopping. How long do you plan on going thru this?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!