This is so inappropriate. Have you ever talked to an atty? How did you find out about this? I am so very sorry. These blows to our hearts are so very hard.
We just had the BIGGEST fight ever!!! I went off the deep end!!! W was cussing me out!! I even told her to put OM on the phone so I could tell him W was sleeping with me a month ago.
She told me she wasnt going to let D come stay with me!!!
D told me she isnt comfortable living there because of OM..I said huh? She said "yeah daddy" he lives here!!!
Holy mother mary of God!!! I had no idea!!!
W moved him in the first day D met him!!!
Tomorrow Im going to file folks... I have to protect D.
I hate to admit it, but my marriage is over.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
I pretty much just blew any chance of reconciliation with her...she called my mom and said if I call her house again she will call the police and file harrassment charges!!
All I wanted to do was speak to D!!!
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
Im sooooo want to send OM the text messages that W was sending me about what she wanted to do to me sexually...
Don't do it. Focus on not talking to her or anyone tonight. Focus ONLY on filing. It will give you peace. Then, tomorrow, if you don't feel like filing, that's fine too, but it will have gotten you through the night.
Too late lwb!! I just spoke to her again and told her off!!! I told her about how D said her bed was knocking against the wall...all she said was "Ok" sarcastically..
I called her every name in the book...simply couldnt stop myself... Im so hurt that she was messing with both me and him.
I think he deserves to know what kind of girl she really is.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
Focus on your D. Don't do anything to jeopardize your ability to be her father -- in the days ahead you're going to need to be there for her, show her as much stability is possible in these situations.
I hate to say it, but talking to a L is probably called for here. Your W has no right to deny you any access to your child. Your W's trying to goad you.
I cant beleive she moved this dude in the first day he met my D!!!!
No wonder my D has been having anxiety!!!
Ive made up my mind that Im going to get a hold of this cat and show him all the sexual texts and naked pics W sent me on her phone while she was dating the both of us.
She has absolutely no concern for our D!! NONE!!
All she did was laugh in my face!!! I told her that D told me she couldnt sleep because her mom was having sex in the next room and the bed was hitting the wall!!!
THis is some BULLSHIT!!!
Im so mad I want to ruin her life!!!
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
I know that it is Sh*t but you have to calm down or you could lose D. They are trying to get you to lose it so that you lose D in custody if it ever came to that.
Showing anything to OM will do no good. I know how you feel. My wife tried to goad me in losing it with OM. I did not and it has put me in a better position now, if only for children.
You are a better and stronger person than them and you know it.
Pride and dignity for you and D. You and D will never forget how you dealt with this. It will mean everything to her throughout the years. Remember that.
Have you ever talked to an atty? How did you find out about this? I am so very sorry. These blows to our hearts are so very hard.