Dom is right guys, two months is pretty much nothin' in the DBing game! I DB'd for 3 years before throwing in the towel, for two of those years I lived with my W being in an A. That said, you MUST do everything you can and more. As I've said on Fish's thread, you never want to say to yourself "why didn't I try XXX" Do everything you possibly can Hound and Fish, no matter how it turns out, in the end, you will be better men for having done what you did. You can't lose! If your Dbing works, you're M and families are saved, if it doesn't you can still look in the mirror each morning and be proud of the person you see there. It's a no-brainer, don't give up yet!