Get Me On A Smoother Ride....Need Advice #7

[SueS]

Hi there-

Thanks everyone! You know lwb, H has been like this before, but then he got better. Sounds funny, but I know that he knows I'm aware of the affair. Too much has happened. Me asking about where he's been, the phone calls, catching him on the phone....etc. So, tonight I caught him doing something else. He came home and started to change into his workout clothes. I needed to tell him about D3's medicine and remind him to take her snowpants & boots to school tomorrow. I was walking in the bedroom & he had just grabbed a pair of "sexy" underwear from his drawer. Now, I bought those for him for me!! He knows how I feel about him wearing those. The look on his face was complete surprise and anger.

Me: What are you doing?
H: Going to workout.
Me: Then what?
H: Nothing!

Yeah right!! Why would you put sexy underwear on under your workout shorts????? My thought is that he won't be home until very late tonight.

I wanted to get out of here, but I'll do it tomorrow night.

After asking him those questions and his snapping at me, I finished telling him about D3's medicine & snow clothes. Then he came storming out into the living room. He said....You tell daycare that I'm not F'ing paying for her care if they're sending her outside in this cold weather and she get sick. He said it right in front of D3. She started to cry. He kind of apologized to her. I sat there wondering to myself. Do I want this angry man in our lives? Not the angry one.

He's just kind of lurking around here. I think waiting for time to pass. He'll likely go workout for 2 hours and then head to see OW??? Just a guess. It really makes me wonder what the sitch is with OW & her H. I'll ask that when I get the nerve up to talk to H. It has to happen soon.

SueS