when I got home from the pary my neighbour had finished my walkway and the sidewalks around my house. God Bless him!! A couple of my friends are cursing H saying "Why the *&^% isn't he over there shovelling for you?? He's supposed to be taking care of stuff like that!!!".
OK....first of all I owe my H an apology for this comment!! I found out last night that it was H who came by and shovelled while I was at the party!!! What is interesting is how I believe this came to happen. H plays hockey with a bunch of friends on Sun mornings. One of our closest friends (I'll call him JB) is on the team and we have children the exact same age (our D & their S are 2 wks apart and the babies are one month apart). So JB walks into the dressing room and starts speaking to another friend about what a crazy few days it's been (their S2 has been sick too) and starts going on and on about his 'poor wife' with the breastfeeding and sick 2 yr old and getting ready for the party and how he had to shovel the driveway to ensure they could get out ok. He really caked it all on knowing that H was sitting there listening to it all and knowing that H obviously has not been putting that kind of effort in and that I've been dealing with all of this by myself for the most part. So I think after hearing that he decided he better get his butt over here and shovel!
He's acting all nice again and normal tonight on the phone when making arrangements for D for the rest of the week. I was at a place where detaching was easier because he was being such a jerk. Now I'm back to wondering what is going on in his head?! I need to focus on staying consistent now though...but I am a little suspicious of it. Don't know if he's just doing his cycling behaviour or if he's up to something.
