Oh I would LOSE it over your poor D5!!! Lose it!!!! Heck, I ripped H a new one when I found out OW had taken my D3 to the bathroom with her kids at the pool! H was scared of me.
You are right though, what CAN you do? I would just see what your lawyer has to say, and of course, document this. Your wife did take a shot in the arm. There is no denying that in the long run, her actions got D5 sick. No denying that.
You call me strong, jar. I learn it from you, I think.
Jar If I were you I would put my foot down big time about her taking your children around OM's kid's while they have this virus thing!! I would threaten the wife that you will use this in court. May not be great Dbing but when kid's are being endangered because the selfish parent is having an affair and out drinking all the time. Whoah boy I would use that in court.
trying... I'd love to, but I'm sure she won't listen. I'm sure there is nothing that can be "legally" done either.
So checked D3 and she has it although VERY mildly. Regardless.. she will need to be treated as well.
I sent W this in a text.
She just called.. she's upset that this is happening, but she said "It's really nobody's fault.. It's treatable, so we'll deal with it."
Unfreakin real. Not sure what else could happen that could lower her stock with me.
I think I'm ready for the next level of DB. I'm going to be in an outstanding mood in all my dealings with her. I'm going to play off her fear of me finding another woman. Nothing dishonest.. just going to keep her guessing. I'm betting that his stock has dropped a little. I know she's not happy with him.
Key question will be.. where will I be at that time. Part of me hopes to work this out (although it would take a TON of hard work), but the other part is more than ready to move on without her.
Atta boy Jar!!! I think thats exactly what you should do. Hell, it worked in my sitch a year ago (although I was truly moving on and not looking back, at least I thought).
How do you know she is not happy with OM?
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
Key question will be.. where will I be at that time. Part of me hopes to work this out (although it would take a TON of hard work), but the other part is more than ready to move on without her.
Check out AmyC's re-posts on page 4 of my current thread.
Nobody's fault.... that one will come crashing down one day.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
Like I said.. I'm stepping up my game a bit. I'm going to be in an outstanding mood as much as possible while dealing with her.
I answered the phone in a great mood... W even said "Wow.. you must be in a good mood.." I said "Yes.. Yes I am" She asked why.. I said it was just a good day and handed her off to the D's.
