Atta boy Jar!!! I think thats exactly what you should do. Hell, it worked in my sitch a year ago (although I was truly moving on and not looking back, at least I thought).

How do you know she is not happy with OM?

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07