I'm in a strange place right now. When W didn't contact me much for a month, it became real easy to not have any expectations and live my own life. Now she bounces in and out of my life whenever she feels like it and it's hard not to expect certain things from her.
B...it's so funny that you bring this up. My H was a complete a$$ for the last month...angry and cold for no reason. So the last couple weeks detaching has become easier and I even found myself wanting to pull away. Then in the last 5 days he starts acting all nice and I'm reading into it all again!! Wondering if this is his turn around. BUT...now I know what I didn't a month ago and that is DB'ing as well as my new found support system on these boards.
Someone told me on my thread that our job as great DBers is consistency. They will go up and down riding the rollercoaster and we have to maintain ourselves to be effective.
