I stand by my statement that he is insecure, and his insecurities are being fed by lwb's decisiveness. He would prefer a mildly indifferent wife, who is content to permit him to live his life as he is doing now. However, lwb is laying down the law, saying poop or get off the pot. As a result, he is unsure on with whom he will end up with. If anybody at all.
I agree with Mark. Your H is looking for the easy way out and little does he know that an easy way out doesn't exist. My H was looking for that too and he thought he found it by divorcing me and now look....3 months later he admitted that he would erase the entire last year of our lives if he could. I hope your H comes to his senses. You are an amazing woman and you deserve a great life.
We need to get around to planning our lunch. I think it would be great for us to meet.
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