Dear Sandi, I have not read your complete thread. All I can tell you--I promise--is that the grass is not greener on the other side. Letting our wanderings,lusting, & emotions control our actions will only give brief satisfaction. Communication with our mate is everything. A break-down in communication is what causes us to drift and be distracted--until fantasies and lust sets in. Once your in that stage, its like a snowball going down hill. Resist,resist,resist--open a book,a bible, a magazine--start reading. The urge will pass. Be open with you spouse about your feelings and I'm sure you can work thru it.
