ok, wife had ema last year, she ended it about 7 months ago. db'ing payed off for us big time. divorce thrown out, ema ended, multiple therapy sessions, we're trying to do the right thing.
OM keeps popping back up every once in a while. this time for passwords to a cell phone he bought her during the ema. he's stuck with the phone now and needs the password to swap it arround.{was the explanation I got?}
it's all I think about. it drives me nuts. she says I just can't let it go but how can I just "let it go" when it won't go away??
I found his phone # on her cell bill {only once}. she says no biggy, it was just for her old voice mail passwords. nothing else. I accepted her explanation {at the moment} but now My mind is back to worst case scenario. why not come to me and say I called whats his name called for xyz so don't go nuts when you see the cell bill. thats bieng sneeky in my eyes. contact with om behind my back.
I need a little advice how how to "let it go" when it keeps popping back up. like I said, the divorce is off. we're back together. things are looking up. but this is a HUGE weight pulling us {me} down.
