Well, I did respond. I just said thanks for everything that you said, and I will give you all the space that you need. So that's that. She can make contact again if she wishes, I think I am done for now.
Whether she uses this time for clearing her head out, personal reflection, and growth, or whether she sees it as just an opportunity to jump into the embrace of some OM, there's nothing I can do. She doesn't want anyhthing to do with me right now, so she can have that. She can still be a part of my life if she wants, at the end of the day I still want her back, but this is my life and I'm going to live it, with or without her. I've been dealing with a boatload of ups and downs lately, I think detachment is the answer right now.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021