I Was Almost A Walk-Away Wife (next thread)

[Dom R]

Ok, you made the "list of 3 things to do for him". That's great! you are well on the way to something better

Next step;

Now make a list of 3 things that he could do for you (on a regular basis), that would make you feel at least a bit better.
Dont be shy on these ones.. Dont hold back, really "go for it", and write down even major things, that you feel would have the BIGGEST positive effect on your marriage, if he did them.

Try not to rule anything out, as "he wont do it", or "its too hard"... Just be totally honest, about if a fairy waved a magic wand, and he suddenly started doing these 3 things, it would really mean something to you.


If you feel timid, and you want to write down some "lesser" things as well, that's up to you. However, you "must" write down the 3 big things, first