Hound - I don't know about you, but I am seriously thinking about packing it in.
After 2+ months of DBing, my relationship with the W is stable, but I think our feelings for each other are really starting to fade. I am at the point where I think I may be happier on my own.
Sure it will be painful. But in the end it may be for the best.
Do you ever look at your wife - now and say... do I really want to spend the rest of my life with this person? Yeah it was good at one point, but that time has passed.
Some relationships last for a moment, some for awhile, very few forever.
Fish- It sounds like you are reading the WAS handbook there. All I'm saying is think before you leap. I don't think she's done, in fact you are sounding more done than you've make her sound.