Maybe you should ask him what his plans are, to "get our marriage on track".

If he doesnt have any.... ask him to tell you when he's gotten a plan together.
and leave it at that?

Not having a plan, didnt seem to work back in 03/09/07 for you.
Sounds like this time, having a plan up front, might be in order.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle