I thought you were farther along than that. If you are just at temperature taking, then she still needs the space to work through her stuff and you can't get ahead of yourself. I think you really need to just stay still if you don't think she's completely serious about trying again. Give it some more time. Don't be sucked back in, but don't be too aloof.
Anyway, this is a scary time for you I suspect....do I really get my hopes up? Is this really what I want? Am I just asking for more hurt? Sounds like you'll navigate it. Good luck to you Atlas.
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