I Was Almost A Walk-Away Wife (next thread)

[Dom R]

Please don't give up on me.

For as long as you want me to keep talking to you, I wont

Let's take a little closer look at what is going on....

I have to force myself to do it, but it is so hard when I can't stand it.

How about thinking about what kinds of things you are completely revolted at the thought of, compared to things that you could manage.

Well, its not so much important to focus on the things you DONT want to do... I think it might be helpful to try to focus more on the side that you WOULD do
For the other side, it might help to know just vague areas that you arent comfortable with right now.

I think that generaly speaking, there may be 3 categories of things you could do for him. (i'll get to him doing for you, later...)

category #1: things that you could do "easily"

category #2: things that would be "difficult", but you could still manage

category #3: things that you are completely nauseated by.

Category 3 things, I'm guessing can be lumped into broad areas, like "Anything physical", and "showing him positive affection, directly".

So... outside of those areas... how about coming up with 3 things, in either category #1, or category #2, that you believe he would like. Also, please identify in which category they are in for you.


I'll wait to post the next part of what I intend to say, until after you reply to this bit first