tostada & DNOy, I have done the same things. One of the critical change I made was to give up drinking. I went all through Thanksgiving without a drink of alcohol. I have been sober for almost 6 months. Geeze, time does fly. W is awaiting my d-day, but I dont give up. The funny thing is she still dont believe the 180 I did, which in fact makes her wonder more if I am doing this to get with someone else. Interesting idea though, so I rest my case.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...