So basically she IS A HO. If she has had so many lovers I am sure she will eventually get bored of your H and move on to the next one.
That was my hope, BUT she is getting on, and I suspect that my h is the nicest man she ever met, by a mile, so she is hanging on for dear life.
Good. She's clinging. Look a the positive of that--postive for you that is. And 4 MAJOR break ups. MAJOR--how many other breakups?
Sexual Experience: that just means she can open her legs. WOW, impressive. There isn't love. Isn't interesting how sexual playmates are called Lovers. There's no love there. It's simply anataomical compatability, like a plug and an outlet. Spread legs insert...
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but what hurts is that he prefers her!!!!
This is where I feel sad for OWs out there. MLCers are notinlive with OWs. Sopme of them think they are, some know they are not. But OWs are abused women. They allow themselves to be abused woman. They do not demand respect. They are desperate and MLCers know this. OWs do not value themselves highly, and thus the MLCer also does not value them.
Consider it this way: He doesn't prefer the OW to you. But he is incapable of treating a woman properly right now. He has too much respect for you to treat you poorly, but is INCAPABLE. So he had to find someone else.
I just thought I'd say thanks for stopping by my thread. From what I've read, you've been in this for quite a while now. It does get quite tough on the LBS but as many others have said on your thread, it does make you a much better person. Hang in there, it will all get better
RCR - Your post was very thought provoking, and interestingly confirms much of what my h has said to me at different times about OW.
He has admitted that she is desperate, and needy, and that he doesn't respect her. He has told me that I have too much self respect to behave the way she behaves.
Just heard this song and I thought OMG!! Her husband was in MLC and it's been 3 years and 1 night and she still misses his dumb ass!!! Will this ever end....
DIDO LYRICS
"All You Want"
I'd like to watch you sleep at night to hear you breathe by my side And though sleep leaves me behind there's nowhere I'd rather be And now our bed is oh so cold my hands feel empty no one to hold I can sleep what side I want It's not the same with you gone Oh if you'd come home I'll let you know that All you want Is right here in this room All you need Is sitting here with you All you want
It's been three years One night apart but in that night you tore my heart If only you had slept alone If those seeds had not been sown
Oh you could come home and you would know that All you want Is right here in this room All you need Is sitting here with you All you want
I hear your key turning in the door I won't be hearing that sound anymore And you and your sin can leave the way you just came in send my regards to her
I hope you've found that All you want Is right there in that room All you need Is sitting there with you All you want
I'd like to watch you sleep at night to hear you breathe by my side
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Good. She's clinging. Look a the positive of that--postive for you that is. And 4 MAJOR break ups. MAJOR--how many other breakups?
