It's ok to have the expectations, but I would lower the priority of them...Most of them you probably will not see a visible result or the result you want. Maybe turn them into goals of 'if she does show a positive sign, she would do this' and keep them simple. Make them little goals for moving forward instead of trying to figure out every little thing she is doing. It is good to try and reason it out for your own sanity, but it may also drive you bonkers when you can't.
They are doing what feels 'right' to them at the moment, and only them. They are selfish, me, me , me. Be the best TOSTADA out there. The overanalyzing is very hard to stop doing, lord knows I am very good at that, but to me, it also means you will get tired of doing this soon and will begin to detach more. So hang on. Keep going and retalk simple conversations in your head before they happen and that will help you project a calmer, more sane, and attractive you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
