I have to side with Sir here, in that some people enjoy letting all the wind out of people's sails...
I don't think he is being unrealistic that a D MIGHT happen, but I do think focusing on the positive is much more healthy! Especially if that is the path he has chosen for himself.
Everyone is here because of the possibility of divorce, and most of us are trying our hardest our last effort to save what we want. Whether that be M or D, but the main thing is making yourself the best you again despite the odds you face. I think he has accepted/faced/the worst/the negatives...that's why he is here.
Positively yours, Pud
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
