I agree with everyone here.. you need to confront him, its really time. You have given him room, probably too much and he is taking advantage of you now.
Start detaching from him, doing things for you and your D.. its time honey, and as hard as it is, it has to be better than what you are enduring now.
(((((hugs))))
tal
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