of course I have expectations...that's why I'm not giving up yet.
is the reason they get mad about the changes is this is what they wanted a long time ago and thus its clouding their current goals? thus...they use anger to try to trip you off your changes and sucker you into an argument or try to get you to give up so the guilt of this type of decision is no on them? are they conciously doing this or did this come from was mental training school?
