HF7, thanks for keeping up with me. My internet access has been down lately due to ice storms.
Sadly, finding out her intentions was as big a blow as IDLYA. I suppose it just drove the point home. For real.
The good news is that it enabled me to get a little angry, and detach enough to make good "businesslike" decisions on the settlement issues for my sons, and myself.
Thank God. If that hadn't happened, then I might have allowed some more seriously messed up things to occur during our D.
It's sad for me not to be able to act like the spouse who loves, because I am, but anytime she wants that back, I'm here.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory