Yep guys you are absolutely right about expectations, they'll shoot it all down in a heartbeat. One thing I have to really manage is my desire to "get to it". I'm a doer by nature so once I see the problem I get to addressing or fixing it. Right now I need to realize I need a lot more patience, again and that sitting and doing nothing at times is doing something, usually the right thing!
Bottom line is I was thinking about me and not her or us and thinking only of me is rather selfish. I'm ready to do a lot more I just have to let her catch up to me!! Just like walking, I'm nearly a foot taller than her so guess what I usually need to slow down so she can keep up.
Last edited by catfan; 12/03/0708:11 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
