Hey FLTC, gotta agree, just get her a card that any friend might get her, something that isn't mushy or such just says happy birthday.

As for venting go right ahead and vent away. Better to do it here than to her.

If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06