I"m in agony here...

[bombardier50]

Corri, I agree that we need to keep all the possibilities in mind, but there are just too many signs pointing to menopause and an apparent problem in accepting it.

One of my wife's biggest turn-offs has always been dishonesty. She really hates people who lie, and if I or any the kids were ever caught, her wrath was withering. Also, she's an absolutely lousy liar herself. She can't keep a secret to save her life. And if she's telling me even a little bit of a fib, you can see it in her eyes.

I don't know, maybe I'm naive. If she were having an affair, it would be more her style to just be up front about it. And with the exception of the lack of physical affection, nothing else has changed. I would think that she would show an affair in some other aspects of her behavior as well.

Anyway, I'm going to be away from home for the next week. If she's having or about to have an affair, she'll have plenty of time.