I would say you are doing FABULOUSLY. I think since you are standing up for yourself and he can see that self-confidence you have gained back...he IS having second thoughts.
These are the things my H saw in me before he began to turn back into the person I knew...Good for you at making a salad and going to your computer even when he was there....
He needs to sit and stew in his thoughts about how he is behaving and this helps him to do more thinking...on his own.
Keep up the good vibes and I am sending more your way.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
