Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

[dh4320]

Still need a little help here, some people are telling me to have her come over and i be the supervisor and do things with the kids, that the kids need to see us together sometimes, is this good or a bad idea, i need help... I can db like hell when she is around, but something inside tells me that dbing wont work on her, i dont know what it is about her but i dont think she looks at me as a dber doing any good for us as parents... any answers???????