"i'm not happy with [my spouse]. I dont want to bother putting in full effort on it. Why bother with extreme stuff like marital counselling? That's just a hassle, and I dont want to be told I have to change anything about ME. I can just get a divorce like mom/dad and 'find someone better' for ME".
You know what? My mother was divorced three times, and my dad was divorced twice. All of them happened before I was 14.
And you know, never ONCE did that nice, flippant, completely uninformed opinion of YOURS ever enter my mind. Never. As a matter of fact... just the opposite happened.
